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some random facts about me:
I used to take a long breath
before walking through my own front door.
Would I please him just to keep the peace?
Would we avoid and spend another evening like polite roommates?
I was in a relationship I genuinely loved.
And I had no idea how to actually be in it.
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I froze, performed, over-explained & pleased,
in bed and outside of it, every single day.
Too much and never enough, at the same time.
Too needy, too open, too sexual,
and simultaneously never whatever it was supposed to be.
In bed, I knew approximately how long it would take.
I made the sounds and poses I'd seen in films.
But around the 15-min mark,
I wondered when it would be over,
soI could reply to that email and wash that pile of laundry in the corner.
I thought opening up the relationship
would fix our relational loop we had.
Spoiler: It didn't.
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One evening at a play party, overwhelmed,
I went to get a glass of Water (simple thing…).
Over the water machine, two guys started touching me.
I froze. Couldn't move. Couldn't find the words to make it stop.
Couldn't even reach for a glass of water.
I thought I was so open. So free.
So why did I feel more alone the more 'liberated' I became?
That's when the questions I'd been pushing down
finally surfaced:
I didn't have answers.
So I did what most of us do:
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I numbed. More bodies, more situations. Stayed busy.
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But my body kept the score and eventually stopped waiting for me to catch up.
At 21, my pelvic floor collapsed.
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I couldn't control when I needed to pee.
I went from doctor to doctor.
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Every test came back the same:
“Everything looks fine.”
But I knew, in the way you know things you're not yet ready to say out loud, that nothing was fine.
The shift
I moved to Germany after this painful breakup.
I began therapy. Trauma & somatic work.
I went to EVERY workshop. Read EVERY book. Sat with the discomfort I'd spent years avoiding.
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Then I met a new person, who today is my life partner.
One evening, he did something no one ever did after exiting me in sex:
He placed his warm hand on my pelvis.
Didn't move. Just stayed present.
I broke completely open.
Images flooded in at once:
The glass of water I couldn't reach.
The countless times I'd been lying there, fifteen minutes in, mentally somewhere else entirely.
Every moment my body screamed, but I didn't listen.
I realized something MIND BLOWING:
I wasn't a bad partner. I wasn't broken.
My body hadn't been failing me! It had been trying to speak to me.
I just didn't know how to listen.
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That experience changed the direction of my life. I was hungry for revolution, so I went on to formally train in somatic sexology coaching, psychosexual & relationship therapy, and trauma-informed practice.
I kept exploring ethical non-monogamy and polyamory
(this time with the tools, communication skills, and the language I'd been missing).
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Every chapter of that journey is woven into my work.
Here's what I wish someone had
told me sooner:
01
Relating is a skill.
02
The way you are in
your intimate relationship
is exactly
the way you are anywhere
Over the last 4+ years, I've supported
hundreds of individuals and intimate partners
to break their relational loops, the shame around their desires,
and how they love,
and finally get the intimacy they are craving.
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Sex and relationships are shaping
every aspect of life on this planet,
Yet no one is teaching us
how to actually navigate them...
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I built this practice because I know exactly what it costs
to navigate this alone:
Without tools & a human being who's genuinely been
inside the experience you're trying to find your way out of
The Professional Bio
behind my lived experience.
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MSc in Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy**
Institute for Relational and Sexual Therapies (COSRT-accredited)
Certified Somatic Sexologist & Sex Coach
Institute of Somatic Sexology
BA Psychology & Business
Tel Aviv University (graduated with honors)
thesis on sexual relational dynamics & human behaviour
Certified Trauma-Informed Yoga Teacher
300 hours, Yoga Alliance
Imago Relationship Therapy
Introductory training
Member of professional bodies: ASIS & Student Member COSRT
Association of Somatic & Integrative Sexologists
UK professional body for Psychosexual & Relationship Therapies
Current studies**
Where should we begin
Your Intimate Revolution?
You are welcome here.
All of you.
Most relationship and sex therapy or coaching is built around heteronormative,
cis-mono-normative assumptions or theories.
But you are unique, so are your relationship(s).
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I work with people of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. Whether you identify as queer, non-binary, gender non-conforming, trans, kinky, polyamorous, exploring, or somewhere in between: You are welcome here. Nothing is ever too much. Here, nothing about you is a problem to be managed.
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I actively work to dismantle internalised systems of oppression and to create spaces that are genuinely safer for everyone who walks through my door. I fully support and advocate for sex workers, BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ rights.
This is lifelong work. I'm always learning, always unpacking.
If I ever fall short, I want to know. Feedback is welcome and taken seriously.
Inclusivity statement
My Personal & professional core values
Safety is the precondition, Vulnerability is the doorway, Expression is the mechanism, Belonging is the outcome
Safety
This is trauma-informed & zero judgment space. I believe safety is the antidote to a hypervigilant world. Most of us learned our relational and sexual scripts from movies, porn, and gender norms that were never actually about us. Safety means unlearning that: in the body, and inside relationships, so we can actually expand: erotically, relationally, eventually as a wider culture. Without it, nothing else on this page is possible.
Vulnerability
whatever your relational status or identity: vulnerability is how you access not just the sex and connection you're craving, but the confidence and belonging in every other room you walk into- the boardroom, your family, your friendships. Same doorway, every room. I saw how vulnerability is the doorway: in my own life, my own relationship, and in every client I've worked with.
Expression
Expression, to me, is liberation in action. Not power over someone else, rather power accessed from within: your voice, your needs, your fantasies, your body, finally released from whatever's been shrinking them. I won't tell you what your expression should look like. My job is to support your own discoveries about where you're stuck, so you can stop shrinking, and still be chosen.
Belonging
We're wired for connection. In my experience a harsh realization was revealed: the loops we get stuck in don't care about your passport, your relationship structure, or who you love. Monogamous or polyamorous, hetero or queer, we share the same relational aches and the same desires underneath them. Shame loses its grip fastest in connection with others, not alone. That's why this work builds a network of belonging, beyond your intimate relationship, in the wider fact of being a sexual, relational human.
Not a one-size-fits-all method.
Where should we begin your intimate revolution?
